COURTSHIP (PART THREE)
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COURTSHIP
COURTSHIP (PART TWO)
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Am
amanda, 21years old with two boyfriends. One made it clear, we won't
get married while, the other one, complains that I don't have his time
like other girls. What do I do?
(Ans.) There is a different between courtship and friendship!
FRIENDSHIP:
Friendship is all about kindness, trusting. Caring, unselfishness, Charity, understanding, respect, freedom, appreciating, being precious, maturity, comforting, guidance, discipline, genuine, original, compassionate, expectations, taste & choice.
Friendship is as precious as the one you might have. You may be seldom far from thoughts and the world will be a better place, because you are there.
Friendship is all about kindness, trusting. Caring, unselfishness, Charity, understanding, respect, freedom, appreciating, being precious, maturity, comforting, guidance, discipline, genuine, original, compassionate, expectations, taste & choice.
Friendship is as precious as the one you might have. You may be seldom far from thoughts and the world will be a better place, because you are there.
RELATIONSHIP:
In a relationship base on assumptions of team work and equality, you feel responsible for the happiness and fulfillment of each other and not constantly absorbed with the security of your own rights.
In building up a caring relationship. Do not wonder why your partner or any one does not share things with you. Be a good listener, who enable others to open and able to see and feel from point of view. God listening with one' s eyes as well as ears help someone to see the situation from other's point of view. As a result to be more likely to respond with love , understanding and empathy, A gentle touch by the hand is a wonderful way to express concern and solidarity with someone who is suffering and in pain. It may be taking the other's palms in yours, touching the shoulder or warm embrace and so on may also bring in feeling of loving relationship.
In a relationship base on assumptions of team work and equality, you feel responsible for the happiness and fulfillment of each other and not constantly absorbed with the security of your own rights.
In building up a caring relationship. Do not wonder why your partner or any one does not share things with you. Be a good listener, who enable others to open and able to see and feel from point of view. God listening with one' s eyes as well as ears help someone to see the situation from other's point of view. As a result to be more likely to respond with love , understanding and empathy, A gentle touch by the hand is a wonderful way to express concern and solidarity with someone who is suffering and in pain. It may be taking the other's palms in yours, touching the shoulder or warm embrace and so on may also bring in feeling of loving relationship.
COURTSHIP:
You bring to your courtship your capacity to experience your feelings. There are many reason why it is important to you to be responsive to the flow of your feelings when starting, maintaining and if liking and attraction, being spontaneous, being sensual and being rational. In your courtship you are constantly required to listen to your feelings. These does not means you ignore other's feelings.
Feeling is a physical sensation, emotions and awareness. It represents physical sensation that represent the underlying animal nature. The word emotion implies movement . Feelings are processes. Awareness implies that you can be conscious of your feelings. In courtship you are constantly required to listening to your feelings. Listening to past feelings in present context.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You bring into your relationship your feelings of security insecurity and your fears and anxieties.
Amanda, I think by now, you should be able to know the kind of relationship you are into. Take your time, be careful and trust in God. Good luck.
You bring to your courtship your capacity to experience your feelings. There are many reason why it is important to you to be responsive to the flow of your feelings when starting, maintaining and if liking and attraction, being spontaneous, being sensual and being rational. In your courtship you are constantly required to listen to your feelings. These does not means you ignore other's feelings.
Feeling is a physical sensation, emotions and awareness. It represents physical sensation that represent the underlying animal nature. The word emotion implies movement . Feelings are processes. Awareness implies that you can be conscious of your feelings. In courtship you are constantly required to listening to your feelings. Listening to past feelings in present context.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You bring into your relationship your feelings of security insecurity and your fears and anxieties.
Amanda, I think by now, you should be able to know the kind of relationship you are into. Take your time, be careful and trust in God. Good luck.
Hatred paralyses life; love releases it hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.
~Martin Luther king.
I am in love with a
guy who I believed loves me so much but we use to have problems . At
times it leads to separation, he feels that I am not straight forward,
he calls me names. But the truth is that, I have not lived up to his
expectation. Please I need your help.
(A) love emphasized a warm or strong affection or liking for another person, it may or may not
have a sexual component. However, such definitions of love are centered
on the person feeling the love. Love demands caring calls for patience by
which one can bear with friction and differences, in peace and
tranquility without murmuring or sadness. Failures, defects, complexes,
illness, pains, sorrow, disagreement and disappointment. Every person is
a companion with understanding, struggling with humanity and you should help
one another and support one another, tolerate each other in carrying
the burdens of life. You should always console, comfort, embarrass,
encourage, listen, appreciate and respect each other. You need to
appreciate and respect each other's names and avoid the use of foul
languages.
Love is appealing, inviting, it radiates, speaks, its gentle, calm, kind and very emotional. Bring into your relationship your feelings of security or insecurity and anxieties. Mutual sympathy and liking develop from sensitive understanding of each other's vulnerabilities as much as from appreciation of strengths.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt.
Am married and I did all i could to make my husband happy
but he complain so much about body language. He said I should go and
learn more about body language please, tell me all you know about body
language, am willing to learn fast.
(Ans) Anon says, it ain't what you say, but how you say it. Man is the only animal that blushes or needs to, Mark Twain.
When communicating verbal messages, voices and body framing messages which may or may not stay. Body languages can be countermanded by your voices and body framing message. For instances. You might tell someone every thing is all right in marriage but from you, it shows that you are unhappy. Professional actresses & actors consciously try to control the body and voice message of the characters they play to suspend your disbelief. Here are some of the body languages.
Fiscal expression_ is
the main action for sending body message. Happiness, fear, sadness,
anger, surprise, and interest. Some of the information in these facial
expression, is carried through the.......................
To be continue
Written by:
Remi Badmus (MRS.)
GIT9ja Relationship Expert/Counsel
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